Attaining a PhD, the highest academic degree, is a significant achievement, one for which I am profoundly grateful. Yet, while the title of “Doctor” carries immense pride, the scientific discoveries that emerged from this journey are far more meaningful to me. For me, the PhD was never a personal indulgence. It was a quest to uncover a scientific formula for prosperity—one that could benefit not just our children and grandchildren but generations yet unborn.
Over the years, my scholarly journey has integrated theology, philosophy, and psychology. As a researcher, this journey ultimately led me to positive psychology, the science of human flourishing. Positive psychology focuses on understanding and fostering the conditions that allow individuals and communities to thrive. Through this discipline, I uncovered transformative principles that now form the foundation of my work.
Flourishing as Holistic Bliss
As a positive psychologist, I discovered that flourishing—or “bliss,” as I prefer to call it—transcends material or financial wealth. It represents a state of holistic well-being that nourishes every dimension of life: physical, financial, emotional, social, and spiritual. At its core lie secure, loving relationships and a set of transformative virtues I call LOVE: Linkedness, Opulence, Valory, and Equanimity.
Linkedness reflects unconditional acceptance and belonging, fostering harmony with oneself, others, and the broader world. Opulence represents a sense of secure provision and confidence in one’s ability to achieve personal and collective goals. Valory is the fulfilment that comes from living a purposeful, meaningful life aligned with one’s core values. Equanimity represents resilience and courage, enabling individuals to navigate life’s challenges with grace and triumph. Together, these virtues form a holistic framework for thriving, offering a robust and enduring pathway to flourishing.
The LOVE Model and the Role of Adversity
A series of scientific studies has led me to develop LOVE: A New Psychological Model of Bliss. Central to this model is the theory of Differential Bliss Receptibility (DBR), which explains the positive and significant role of adversity in the relationship between spirituality, agape, LOVE virtues, and bliss.
DBR posits that adversity, while undesired, creates conditions conducive to spiritual growth by heightening spiritual sensitivity and transcendence. This heightened receptivity enables individuals to experience God’s love (agape) more profoundly, which serves as the foundation for the LOVE virtues. In turn, these virtues lay the groundwork for achieving a state of holistic and enduring bliss.
Adversity acts as a catalyst, fostering a heightened craving for spirituality and a deeper connection with God. It compels individuals to seek meaning and engage with their faith more earnestly. However, it is not adversity itself that leads to flourishing but how individuals respond to it. Positive coping strategies, such as prayer, meditation, and worship, facilitate the synthesis of spiritual virtues—ingesting, digesting, assimilating, and integrating them into daily life.
The Role of Spirituality
Spirituality plays a pivotal role in the LOVE model as the source of the virtues necessary for bliss. A secure, personal relationship with a loving God nurtures Linkedness, instilling unconditional acceptance and belonging. Trust in divine provision fosters Opulence, enabling confidence and a sense of abundance. Aligning one’s life with divine purpose brings Valory, fostering peace and fulfilment. Faith cultivated during trials builds Equanimity, allowing individuals to transform challenges into opportunities for growth.
Without exposure to God’s love, adversity often leads to despair. But with a secure spiritual connection, it becomes a transformative force, turning suffering into strength and challenges into opportunities for growth. This dynamic underscores the importance of faith and active engagement with spiritual resources during life’s trials.
The Transformative Role of DBR
The Differential Bliss Receptibility (DBR) theory emphasises that adversity heightens one’s spiritual receptivity. This process fosters spiritual growth by enhancing one’s ability to experience and internalise God’s love. Through this heightened spiritual sensitivity, individuals are able to tap into the LOVE virtues more effectively, allowing for a profound transformation that leads to bliss.
The DBR framework underscores the dynamic interplay between adversity, spirituality, and virtues. It shows that adversity is not simply a challenge to be endured but an opportunity for deep, transformative growth. Spiritual practices such as worship and meditation act as catalysts, helping individuals to fully internalise and integrate these virtues into their lives.
The LAT Validation
The LOVE Assessment Tool (LAT) has been empirically validated, demonstrating exceptional reliability with a Cronbach’s alpha of 0.968, confirming its robustness as a scientific instrument. A big thank you to those who participated in the study. This validation revealed how each element of the LOVE Model—Linkedness, Opulence, Valory, and Equanimity—uniquely contributes to flourishing, offering nuanced insights into the pathways to holistic well-being. The LAT successfully measured spiritual attachment and well-being, affirming its potential to foster resilience, purpose, and inner peace. Its validation opens transformative opportunities for applications in therapy, education, workplaces, and community settings, providing hope and guidance to those seeking more meaningful and fulfilled lives. Read the empirical study in full here.
Beyond the Individual: A Legacy of LOVE
As I reflect on this journey, I am consumed by a burning desire to pass down the LOVE virtues to future generations. This begins with parents cultivating a personal relationship with the God of LOVE and instilling these virtues in their children. A flourishing mentality, nurtured in secure and loving family environments, can counteract the effects of historical misery. By fostering Linkedness, Opulence, Valory, and Equanimity in children and young people, parents and community leaders can create a foundation for lasting prosperity. This work is not merely about individual well-being; it is about cultivating a legacy of LOVE that transforms communities and inspires generations.
A World Enriched by Bliss
This is my life’s work and my enduring hope: that communities that have long yearned for prosperity, particularly the Afro-descendants, will use their historical trauma to develop an enduring relationship with the loving God, be filled with His LOVE, and thereby be a catalyst for creating a world enriched by eternal bliss.



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