Noel Maturlu

Published in Issue 1.1 // LaB Press

http://doi.org/10.63994/j4j1wd

KEYWORDS: LOVE, Spirituality, Bliss, Flourishing, Adversity.

Abstract

Bliss, akin to flourishing, represents a holistic state of optimal well-being that transcends fleeting happiness, encompassing physical, emotional, social, and spiritual dimensions. It goes beyond mere survival, integrating physical, economic, social, mental, and spiritual well-being, extending into eternity. At its core is a divine essence rooted in a secure, personal relationship with a benevolent God. This connection forms the foundation for four core virtues: Linkedness, Opulence, Valory, and Equanimity—acronymised as LOVE. Linkedness emphasizes unconditional acceptance and belonging, fostering harmony with God, people, and nature. It nurtures identity as a beloved child of God and trust in His steadfast love. Opulence assures divine provision, combining faith in God’s providence with confidence in achieving material and spiritual abundance. Valory highlights purposeful living aligned with God’s will, bringing joy, tranquillity, and fulfilment.Equanimity embodies resilience and courage, trusting in divine strength to navigate challenges and uncover hidden benefits. The LOVE Model is the first relational psychological framework of bliss, integrating the transformative roles of attachment, spirituality (attachment to the divine), and adversity. It underscores agape—selfless, unconditional divine love—as the primary source of the LOVE virtues and the essential foundation for. Unlike models that rely on ethical principles or human effort, the LOVE Model highlights the transformative power of a secure spiritual attachment to God, fostering virtues that enable holistic well-being. Innovatively, the model introduces Differential Bliss Receptibility (DBR), which suggests that adversity heightens spiritual sensitivity, enabling individuals to transform adversity into growth, ultimately, bliss. By framing adversity as a catalyst for flourishing and emphasising secure divine attachment, the LOVE Model bridges psychology and spirituality, offering a transcendent, adaptable framework for well-being across diverse contexts.

About the Author

Dr Noel Maturlu is the Director of Love and Bliss, a non-profit organisation, and Editor-in-Chief of The LaB Press—home to the Journal of Positive Psychology, Agapology, and Spirituality. A licensed minister and pastor, psychologist, psychotherapist, and senior lecturer, he has authored numerous books and scholarly articles. His research and publications pivot around the decolonisation of the slavery mentality and the cultivation of a prosperity mindset. At the heart of his work is the nexus between spirituality, adversity, and human flourishing, with particular emphasis on advancing the flourishing of Afro-descendant communities both on the continent and across the diaspora.